What do you think of a whi women who marries an Arab man?

I have a friend who married an Arab, and she keeps complaining that he wants them to move to his country and if they have children , they should be muslim. She is catholic. She keeps putting him down in a way and defending him at the same time. She says she doesn't want to go to his country but at the same time she relishes in the fact that arab men will be looking at her and trying to stop her being herself like wearing short skirts and drinking. I'm at a loss to know what to say to the point that I avoid meeting her now. What would you do?