After divorce i m becoming a hawk in such solitude ,i dont want people in my life anymore but,?

Please don't make the same mistake my aunt did. My dads brother got married, and divorced her a few years later. I am close to my cousins, and we sometimes drop them off at her house. This woman doesn't talk to anyone except for her 2 kids. When we come to the door, she would hide behind the bookcase and wait for us to leave. She doesn't answer her phone unless her kids are calling. She has not kept in contact with her family or friends. the only time she leaves the house is to get groceries. A divorce is obviously a tough thing to go through, but in time you will feel better. This woman has closed herself off to so many opportunities. She could be remarried. it's been 8 years since their divorce. You should go out and see friends, talk to your mom. Tell people how you feel. go to a therapist if you think it's that bad. I hope things get better for you!